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Views on Sex
| Overview
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Where to begin? Sex. Such a broad topic. I have varying
views on sex. I believe that sex and love are seperate, each a driving
force in the situation it controls, feeding off of and thus enhancing
itself. To define sex in one cover line would be a generalization
that doesn't even begin to explain my feelings, so I will try my best
to cover some details. These aren't in any special order, so I apologize
in advance. |
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| Making Love
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We have all been in this situation where the sex results
in a level of feeling that is so erotic, so intense, that it feels
like you are one with the person you are with both physically and
spiritually. It would be great if all of our sexual experiences were
of this caliber. |
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| Foreplay
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There are times, and with certain people that this can
be as good as the sex itself. The feeling of touch, taste, smell,
and sight of the person you are with can sometimes carry you to that
level where you feel like you could spontaneously explode. |
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| Safety - |
There is no way I am gonna sit here and say that I am 100% safe,
100% of the time. There have been times that the "heat of the
moment" has so caught me up in the person I was with that I
submitted quite ungracefully with no thought of safety. There will
be more of these. To say anything else would be a lie.
I will say that if I had a choice in life, that I would choose
"natural sex" over "protected sex" Now, I am
not saying that I "condone" unsafe sex, so before those
of you who think that there is no other way but safe start sending
me 500 emails on the practices of safe sex, know that its just an
opinion.
On most occasions, I practice safe sex. I can happily (and with
a relieved sigh) say that to this date (August, 2004) my most
recent HIV test result was negative. I fully intend to stay that
way. However, should the day come where its anything other than
a negative result, I will live my life, day by day, and take care
of myself, just as I do now.
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| Positions - |
First and foremost, I dont confine myself to one position.
I will start by saying that I consider myself to be approximately
95% bottom and 5% top, so I get to claim a portion of versatility.
I cant help the fact that I love the feeling of a man being intimate
with me in the most giving way he can. I can however say that there
have been many occasions that I have chosen to be the one to give.
Also, as far as physical positions, I have yet to find a position
that I didn't like being a bottom in. |
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